Alex Hooton is a gorgeous, stylish, beautiful little four year old boy. And he has an INCREDIBLE mother who gives the world for him. Alex is only four... yet he has been through far more than what many of us have. He is a trooper through and through.

Alex's beautiful Mum, Katie, emailed me saying she really needed photos taken of her darling boy, as he was about to begin an extreme high dose of steriods (5 times the normal adult dose), in an attempt to stop him having many seizures a day. The effects of the steroids would be extreme fluid retention, and she was desperate to have something to hold onto of her gorgeous boy, without all the side effects of the drugs. Alex was born with autism and West Syndrome - a catastrophic type of childhood epilepsy that was diagnosed at 12 weeks of age. My heart sunk and tears rolled down my cheeks as I read Katie's email about what she and Alex go through on a daily basis.

This is why I do what I do. Photographs are more than a piece of paper, or something to brighten up our computer screens. Photographs are a way to hold onto something that once was, or to capture real personality and mannerisms. They tell the story of someone's life - with memories to be passed down generations. For Katie, these photographs serve as a very precious reminders of her wee boy, before the side effects hit.

When I met Alex, Katie, and Sue (Alex's grandma), on the day he began his first dose of intense steriods, I was blown away by the strength they have, and how perfect Alex is in so many ways. He is such good looking wee boy, with gorgeous shaggy hair, soft skin and a wee round face that tugs at your heart strings.
His health may be far from perfect, but as a beautiful, loving little boy... he is perfect. He is inquisitive and delightful. He loves exploring and running (...away from the camera...!), and he also loves cars and tractors! Katie has to be in the running for the world's greatest mother, she does such a great job.
Alex is such a sweetie, and Katie is so proud of him. She loves him more than anything - and his sweet wee laugh and the way he looks at her, is testament to how much he loves her back. Things are definitely not easy though. Alex spends his days going in and out of hospital, getting therapy, treatments, medications and he still suffers from many seizures, sleepness nights, and a heap of other side effects.
I love that no matter what the circumstances, the bond between a mother and her child is unbreakable and unconditional.
After running around the playground and fields, Alex found a small creek which he loved throwing stones into. It wasn't long before he was in the water in his shoes... and falling into the creek fully clothed!
A few wardrobe changes later, and Alex slowed down a bit as his energy faded a little. This was a perfect time for me to grab some 2 second shots of him and his adoring mother.
_I totally love the next three portraits.
Alex calls Sue "Mema Chickens", because she has free range chickens at her house, that Alex adores! I think that is the cutest thing ever. Sue was so great to have on the photo shoot too - her energy and beauty was awesome. It was really special that Sue could be down from Christchurch for the shoot, because Alex just thinks she is the bees knees!
Talking with Katie since this shoot has really taught me a lot. Her strength and positivity, amongst what is a really difficult lifestyle and situation, is hugely admirable. She is so smitten with her wee boy, and rightly so! Yet poor wee Alex goes through so much more than what I can ever imagine, and the steroids have only had negative side effects so far. I have been reminded to take time to be thankful for what I have, and to take life's small curveballs in my stride. There are so many people dealing with so many difficult issues, who still smile, love and bless others hugely. Katie and Alex have been a big blessing to me in the past month or so since I have met them. They are both amazing people with huge hearts, and I just hope that you will join with me to pray for a miracle for wee Alex as they try to find a suitable treatment and medication for him.

Thanks so much Alex, Katie and Sue, for playing with me that afternoon! My thoughts and prayers are with you all xoxox
 


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Sarah
11/01/2012 4:57pm

WOW.

(Sob)

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11/01/2012 6:19pm

Beautiful images and a beautiful story! Tears!

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Bex
11/01/2012 6:37pm

Yes, tissues were required! Beautiful Kim. What stunning shots of such a precious little guy.

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Jane Hooton
11/01/2012 11:33pm

This is my gorgeous, much loved wee nephew! I am such a proud aunty :) What amazing photos. Kim, thank you from the bottom of my heart. We will treasure these photos forever. Alex and his mother- my precious twin sister, are the most important people in my life. Everything you have written is so beautiful and means so very much to us.

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Lou
12/01/2012 7:51am

Yip def a sob in that one! Kim, again such beautiful shots! Love the close up where he looks like he is doing up his top. What a beautiful mother!

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Becky
12/01/2012 8:49am

Oh, he is just absolutely adorable. Your comment about your photography as 'telling the story of someone's life - with memories to be passed down generations' is just so precious! You have totally captured what little 4 year old boys are all about - always moving, playing, having fun and only stoping to have a cuddle with Mum :) xx

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Maciek
12/01/2012 4:24pm

Hi Alex's dad here, there's just one thing you need to correct. Alex's autism is likely the result of West's Syndrome, as opposed to a distinct condition, that is why it is reasonably atypical of ASD. He presents as ASD, but the underlying cause is the Temporal-Parietal lobe epilepsy. That should clarify things for the neural disorder trainspotters who get linked here by google.

Great job on the photos btw.

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Katie
12/01/2012 4:44pm

@Maciek , I'm not sure about that..it is a grey area. The truth is that even Alex's neurologist does not even know exactly what is going on. I wouldn't say the ASD is caused by the West syndrome but it is associated with it (13% of babies with west syndrome go on to develop autism, just like what happened with Alex).

I love this blog Kim, you are amazing xxx much love

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Jenny Corlett
13/01/2012 6:54am

Just beautiful, looks like you all had an amazing day xoxo

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Ruth
13/01/2012 12:58pm

I could not agree more that Katie is a wonderful mum. I am Alex support teacher at his early childhood centre. I see Katie every week day and am in awe of how strong and attentive to his every need. Even in the hardest of times katie, who is often sleep deprived and exhausted, is prepared to put Alex first and she is always seeking the best for him. She remains gracious and grateful for any assistance. She is a star and Alex a pearl of great price. Ruth

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Jean-Ha
14/01/2012 12:42pm

Priceless moments captured in photos!
Katie, you are an inspiration!!

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Katie
21/01/2012 11:07am

Katie & Alex, what precious photos you have. Having supported Alex at his EC centre I know how fragile his world is and how strong you are Katie to hold it together. Kia kaha e hoa ma, aroha nui ki a korua xx

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Fran
21/01/2012 11:37am

So amazing,so lovely,

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Glenda
21/01/2012 8:29pm

Katie you are amazing and an inspiration! Alex is such an awesome wee boy, and these photos are just stunning. Such a treasure.

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